My experiences and hopefully your first step to become a better lover

better lover

So  you want to become a better lover, achieve better intenser orgasm ? Well so did I. Please let me tell you my story…

If I look back, I think that anyone goes thru these phases; when you are young you just want to do it you know to have sex as soone as possible, so you can fell better (more respected) among friends. And after years when we’re more »mature« (at least we think we are) usually couples split up because other partner is boring, isn’t fun spending time with anymore and become weary of each other. We all know this I think we all ‘ve been there well at least I know I was there on the edge of despair in my sexual and love life.

It’s very easy to hope that love life is gonna be better and do nothing about it. Usually this direction »hope« is headed into a life of frustration.

I’ve been there, but luckily for me at one point in my life I said to myself »ok so I’ve taken the easy way and nothing changed, same old story, but now I have had it ! I’m gonna go for the hard way«. Well let me tell you something about the hard way, I like it !

I mean not the path it self but the end result of it. We man are hmm how should I say It well we are what we are Sex is just sex to us right ? just pleasure. But for women, well that’s a different story. It’s all connected to the feelings towards the partner. I know the times when I used to be very frustrated when my partner couldn’t achieve orgasm. I knew techniques, I knew positions I knew every thing there is about intercourse but I was making a big mistake somewhere else. Can you guess it what it was ? Yes deep partner to partner conversation. After you understand to listen to a womens feelings and show her love in the way they want us to show them you are on the right track.

After all talking, conversation sharing your thoughts, feelings in real life is a key in any good relationship right ?

Well that’s It the very first step to become better lover and to achieve mutual better orgasms is for you to decide to take the HARD way, thru talking, sharing your feeling and revealing it to your partner.