Love silhouetted

Well I’m glad you choose to take the hard way !
So you decided to have open conversation with your partner and now you are ready to take the second step.

Have you ever asked yourself why it’s called »making love« and not »making sex« ?
Well I did. Usually when you make love it’s ment to make something out of your and partners love, usually a child (I’m thinking that was more like in the old days). Nowdays is all that but without a child; instead of a child it’s the orgasm that counts right ? Welcome to the new world.
Don’t get me wrong children are still important, but if we would be making kids every time we make love, the world would be overpopulated decades ago.

So let’s make love the right way. But what is the right way ?

In my previous post I mentioned that the ways from perception point of view is completely different for men and for women. In the other hand the goal is the same. Both partners want to make each other happy helping each other achieving as intense ejaculation / orgasm as possible. Should I even mention that mutual respect is at most importance. Without that we are yet again at square one.

I actually found a really useful guide which helped me so much with this. You can see it here if you are interested.

I know that everyone’s ego wants to achieve better orgasm regards to what partner thinks. We need to learn how to bridle our egos. It’s hard in the beginning but if you work it out with your partner it’s much easier than you think.

The next big thing is kissing. Women are crazy about kissing and cuddling that makes them feel even more loved. So foreplay that includes kissing and cuddling will definitely make your partner wet. Just remember take it slow and be dedicated towards a common goal, better pleasure for both of you.

So what else ? The women Erogenous zones.

We all know the major ones right ? But let’s concentrate on ones we usually neglect.

Kiss, nibble, caress next areas :

• The bottom : women are usually very self conscious about this part of the body so make them know, That you really like it.

• Neck : highly erotic for some women but not all of them

• Inner thighs : Kiss it lick it, It makes them go wild. Start just above the knee and work it slowly towards the vagina. But don’t go straight to vagina, oh noooo don’t let her have it. Go all around it and put your hand on pubic bone work it out I’ll know when to go to clitoris.

• Lower back : where the spine ends, this is highly sensitive area.
• Breasts : what it is to say about breasts ? We all like to massage them, kiss them lick them. Usually men think that focusing on nipples is gonna achieve the most erotic effect on the women; wrong ! It’s areola ! Lick areola in circular movements.
• Clitoris : The Queen of female erogenous zones.  Well what can I say. Be gentle with it. Kiss It , Lick It in circular movements, but remember be gentle. Your partner will show you when to put more pressure on it with you tongue.

Go ahead try it out and remember talk to your partner, find out what works for her, not every women likes everything the other women likes. It surely worked for me and my partner. Try it out yourself ! In case you are interested I found really helpful guide that changed my love life to something so much better. You can read about it here.